What to Do When He Chooses Someone Else.

Step one. Say, “Okay.” And turn around and walk away. Step two. Call your girlfriends, get a pint of your favorite ice cream, cry, scream, and eat the hell out of that ice cream. Step three. Wipe your face, and straighten your crown. Step four. Let go of him and any ideas or dreams you…

Are You a Martyr? Stuck in a Cycle of Toxic Relationships?

Are you sacrificing things that you want and know deep down that you deserve, but for some reason it feels like you don’t? Do you have difficulty receiving compliments? Do you sometimes feel a strong sense of loyalty who doesn’t deserve it? Do you often think, “I don’t know why I put up with so…

The Difference Between You and Them?

Nothing! I’m serious. Absolutely nothing! Every single person that you admire (or perhaps envy) is every bit as human as you. The only thing that separates you from them is YOU! Change your mindset, and believe in yourself! Change your envy to admiration and then to inspiration. Learn to imitate the things that they do…

Grow Old Together? Or Grow Wise…

Most of us share the same relationship goals… to ultimately find someone you can grow old with. But what does that mean exactly? Getting old is inevitable barring an early death, but “old” seems to be the primary focus on this idea. I want us to consider that growing physically old isn’t at all what…

How to Make Him Afraid of Losing You

First of all don’t. Don’t do that. Trying to make someone afraid of losing you is a form of manipulation and that’s just gross. Note: This is not exclusively applicable to hetero relationships, but for simplicity and to keep it brief, I’ll focus on hetero relationships. Please apply pronouns to your specific situation as you…