Do Not Mess Around With a Married Man.

But what if he’s going through a divorce? Absolutely not. Nope nope nope nope nope nope nope. You need to wait until the household is divided, new leases are signed, cell phone bill is split, divorce papers signed, filed by the state, and gathering dust. That relationship needs to be dead and gone. Why? Not…

What to Do When He Chooses Someone Else.

Step one. Say, “Okay.” And turn around and walk away. Step two. Call your girlfriends, get a pint of your favorite ice cream, cry, scream, and eat the hell out of that ice cream. Step three. Wipe your face, and straighten your crown. Step four. Let go of him and any ideas or dreams you…

Are You a Martyr? Stuck in a Cycle of Toxic Relationships?

Are you sacrificing things that you want and know deep down that you deserve, but for some reason it feels like you don’t? Do you have difficulty receiving compliments? Do you sometimes feel a strong sense of loyalty who doesn’t deserve it? Do you often think, “I don’t know why I put up with so…

How Being a Writer Can Hurt Your Relationships

Here’s a sneak peek into the mind of a writer if you will… I’m a new writer. Well, actually that’s not true. I’ve been a writer pretty much my whole life. More specifically since I realized what an incredible art form writing can be. But only recently I have begun to share my work with…

How to Keep Him Interested

Calling all the single ladies! More than likely, if you’re reading this, you’re probably stuck in a cycle of doing too much. Do you tend to overanalyze everything, and feel confused about relationships and dating? Well I’m glad you found this article, and I want to congratulate you on taking the first step towards a…

How to Make Him Afraid of Losing You

First of all don’t. Don’t do that. Trying to make someone afraid of losing you is a form of manipulation and that’s just gross. Note: This is not exclusively applicable to hetero relationships, but for simplicity and to keep it brief, I’ll focus on hetero relationships. Please apply pronouns to your specific situation as you…